Chris Williamson: “If everyone did this, I’d be out of a job” – Divorce Lawyer

Key Takeaways

• Practice meta-communication early: Discuss how you discuss things (“This feels weird/scary, doesn’t it?”) to build emotional intimacy.
• Use structured conversation tools: Try the 36 Questions to Fall in Love (find at chriswallx.com/valentines) or card games like Tales to reveal layers progressively.
• Align physical and emotional revelation: If you’ve seen someone naked, you should also know their sibling count — avoid mismatched intimacy levels.
• Reinforce positive behavior with “good boy points”: Men respond strongly to verbal praise (e.g., “Nice job cleaning the kitchen”) from partners they’re attached to.
• Set clear courtship standards: Women gatekeeping sex and men earning it through discipline/resources fosters long-term relationship stability.

Products & Gear Mentioned

• Tales card game: For deepening relational conversations.
• Diary of the CEO questions: Structured prompts for bonding.

Notable Quotes

“If women would stop sleeping with jerks, men would stop being jerks.”

“Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex. And perhaps not a great deal more.”

Bottom Line

Build relationships intentionally: use structured conversations, align intimacy levels, and set clear courtship standards to foster long-term success.

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